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Why not give me a chance to be a friend?

What is Friendship?

I am neither a psychologist nor an intellectual, therefore I find it impossible to define friendship and put into words my understanding of it.

But what I do know, is that I will laugh with you when you are well and happy and I will cry together with you when you are sad and I will light a candle for you when you are ill or beset by seemingly impossible problems.

Friendship is based on understanding and trust; without these qualities, there cannot be true friendship.

I believe that true friendship is sorely and sadly lacking in our world today: There too many crimes; too much hate, prejudice, envy and jealousy.

I don’t think we can change the world where Politicians and even the Church have failed to find any solution, but we can try and do our bit – create our own world, our own better world, the perfect world.

I Love classical music, operas and waltzes, which I just love to conduct.

I also like to talk about sex. But please do not be alarmed, as I am not a pervert and I don’t do any harm to anyone. I only wish to write letters. I believe that sex is a natural phenomenon, a little like food and water to our bodies. But rape, violence and sadism are not natural and I abhor those.

I am looking for pen pals with anyone, anyone that is, who believe in true friendship and who respect others for who they are and what they are, without prejudice and with people who are not judgemental.

I live in England, but I was born in Mauritius. I am a 50 year old man, and married. My only quest for writing to pen pals, is to try and find a profound and transcendent meaning to friendship, which, I believe, is sorely and sadly lacking in our world today.

Would you care to be my pen pal, please?

If so, please be nice and write to me on my email address, which is: france.chorley@gmail.com

Of course, you don’t have to, if you don’t wish it. I am not being negative here, only trying to be realistic – we cannot like everyone in this world and not everyone can like us. It is a fact of our lives, and we just have to accept it, allowing people to get on with their own lives, without interfering with them, and respecting them for who they are and for what they are, without hate and without prejudice.

Thanking you beforehand, with my deepest respect.

France Chorley
My Email address is: france.chorley@gmail.com

hi,
I agree with you that true friendship is rare in this world and very difficult to find.
I also do think that true friendship has to do nothing with the cast religion and sometimes they are more that the our own relative in the blood.

Hi France,
Though your thread is too old to reply, I really apreciate the idea and the
way you touched the subject. find me in your inbox.

For me I give a chance to a person to be my friend. Friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them. Here's my sample Quotes of a friend. Hope you will like it.

You're...
My Friend,
my companion,
through good times and bad
my friend, my buddy,
through happy and sad,
beside me you stand,
beside me you walk,
you're there to listen,
you're there to talk,
with happiness, with smiles,
with pain and tears,
I know you'll be there,
throughout the years!

But it's true it’s hard to find a real friend who will always there for you all the time. But I've never judge my friend for who they are. What I did is just good to all my friends.